The world would not be the same without YOU! 💖

May 15, 2018
Cecilia Harris

Sometimes it feels like society says you should be always happy, and that showing your sadness is a sign of weakness. This is far from true – if you were to hold in all your sadness or anger you would explode. We all have good and bad days. No one can be perfectly happy all of the time, that is not human.

One day you feel on top of the world and the next you are down. While I am still trying to accept this myself, I know that it is part of life and whether or not others choose to show it, it still happens.

For those who are struggling with mental illness and/or grief, the impact of stress, dealing with this pressure to always seem happy can be even more challenging, as a lot of days are low. Sometimes when we are feeling down and stressed, we put on a mask to hide the darkness that lies behind the smile.

Getting out of bed can be a major task by itself. With depression at times there is no apparent reason for why you are feeling this way. When it feels as though a cloud is hanging over our heads, those are the days we push people away the most.

We do this because it is easier to try and forget about what is going on and not bother others with our problems. But getting through your problems and ignoring your problems are two completely different things.

Whether that is talking to someone about what is going on, finding answers to what is causing that emotion, or using coping skills such as drawing, yoga, mindfulness, and so many other healthy ideas, there are ways to help you get through the bad days. It’s okay to feel down.

Here are 3 tips for those days when you feel trapped:

Try to be social: This can be very hard especially if you don’t want others to know what is going on, but it can help. This could be as simple as starting a small conversation with your friends, teachers, family, or anyone else.

Use coping skills: The list of coping skills could go on for pages and they are unique to each individual. Some healthy coping strategies include journaling, coloring, playing a sport, exercising, going on a run, yoga, deep breathing and so many more! Once you find a few, or maybe even more than one that suits you, it can help tremendously.

Let yourself feel: When a low day hits, it doesn’t mean you have to shut out what you are truly feeling inside. While this may be uncomfortable at times, acknowledging your feelings can help you move through them. Remember you are not alone and you are not bothering others: Everyone in life has problems. That doesn’t mean you're adding to another person’s own problems if you share how you are feeling. You are not a burden.

I have found that when I personally share my thoughts and feelings, a weight is lifted off my shoulders and a sense of relief comes over me.

The journey of life is filled with ups and downs! This is what shapes us into the people we are today. Whether you’re having a bad day or a good day, remember that people do care about you, you are here for a reason and the world would not be the same without you! 💖

Last year, we launched a course called With Self Love ; designed to help reduce anxiety, build confidence and find the motivation to reach your goals and gain control. If you're struggling to find a coping strategy which works best for you, then why not check out our online course?!

Click here to get started, With Self Love inside our Fitness, Food & Mindset membership ! 💕


Cecilia Harris
Founder & Head PT

Cecilia is the co-founder of Results with Lucy and face of Results with Cecilia.

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  • Gem September 19, 2019

    with Self Love is the best course I have ever done! It really helped me on my honeymoon and in starting my own business! Thank you Jeff and the team!

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